"Make it a rule consciously to practice what you already KNOW; you will then discover that which escapes you and what you wish to LEARN."-Rembrandt, 1678

Friday, March 23, 2012

Dear Mr. Rogers



listen.......this quote is quietly stated.....but the ramifications are enormous, as some of us know.     "Please think of the children first.  If you ever have anything to do with their entertainment, their food, their toys, their custody,  their day or night care, their health care, their education....listen to the children, learn about them, learn from them.  Think of the children first."          Fred Rogers

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

The Necessity

As a human I find, I truly NEED sleep.
As a gardener I understand, my hands will get dirty.
As a member of a family, I know I must think  r e l a t i o n a l l y.
As an artist I am constantly compelled to create.
As one who adores children, and their development,  I spend long hours observing.
As a casual ornithologist, mycologist, and entemologist, I must get out of doors.
As a wife whose marriage has dissolved, I must have courage outside many camps.

As an o v e r c o m e r.....I must have TIME ALONE.   This is not only a reasonable ambition, it is imperative for any of  the roles listed above to remain healthy, whole, dynamic in the sense of evolving to greater places of UNDERSTANDING.
One of my dearest friends has no idea I exist.  Infact, we have never met.  She died recently, but left me a legacy of W OR D S that live on in my soul.   She stated once,
       "The world today does not understand, in either man or woman, the need to be alone."

But she did.......and I continue to see how clearly I do.

These are her words:  ".....But if one says:  I cannot come because that is my hour to be alone, one is considered rude, egotistical or strange.  What a commentary on our civilization, when being alone is considered suspect; when one has to apologize for it, make excuses, hide the fact that one practices it-- like a secret vice!"

Anne Morrow Lindbergh knew the secret of "living from a core of inner stillness while actively responding, as we all must do, to the 'here and now'.  She quietly set herself free, into her own life and into all life."

Musing on these things......while I am alone.